Be an Ambassador for Astrology: Reflections and a Quiz
© 2012 by Joyce Mason
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If “it takes a village” to
raise a child; it takes a village to raise consciousness and our body of
knowledge. This applies to every aspect and tool of enlightenment, including
astrology. “No man is an island” for this reason.
Putting Our Heads Together
Astrology is both simple
and complex, linear and intuitive. Its applications are endless. All the
knowledge, skills, and esoteric art it takes to realize astrology’s enormous
possibilities cannot possibly fit into one head. (Your head would explode.) It
has become increasingly clear to me: we, as speakers of the star language, must
put our heads together ongoing to apply astrological knowledge to better living.
The wise words of Hermes and his Law
of Correspondence have become a motto for describing the heaven-to-earth
interface: “As Above, so Below.” This implies that cosmic patterns replicate
patterns on the ground and in our lives. It also implies that astrology is
meant to come out of the clouds (and our heads) into the most practical aspects
of living.
We learn early on, if
we’re lucky to have siblings, that sharing is essential part learning and having
a happy life. I learn more from astrological community than all the books I
have read on the subject put together. The information revolution has opened
new doors for connecting in these conversations on blogs, websites, social
networking groups, online classes, Skype and more.
Yet I still see a lot of
astrological intimidation present in these gatherings. I am no exception to
feeling it. It has taken a lot of work to overcome enough of my own Virgo
self-doubt to become so public with my work. I know well that I don’t know
everything. I am aware of the holes in my astrological education that need
filling, but no longer think I have to be sidelined until I fill every one of
them. I will likely die still having some cavities.
At some point, I had to recognize that there are many things I do know, some of them well. Often I have a unique perspective. The same is true of you.
I am saddened when I see
bright people holding back in astrological conversations what they know for
fear of being wrong, looking ignorant, not knowing enough or a whole host of
other concerns that deprive us of their gifts—and deprive them of the joy of
giving.
How do we create an
atmosphere that turns this around?
Ambassadors for Astrology
Becoming an ambassador for
astrology is a concept you’ll be hearing more about on these pages in the
future. It’s the mission of my local astrological organization—I’m
president—and one I take to heart.
An ambassador is a diplomatic official representing his or her country in foreign lands. In this case, the “country” is the cosmos (astrology).
In most countries,
ambassadors from an array of other countries have individual embassies in the
host country. You are most likely to encounter an ambassador when you’re
traveling and run into trouble. Example: You lose your passport. You’d go to
the embassy of the country you come from to see your ambassador. The
ambassador—or the ambassador’s representatives—would help you replace your
passport or otherwise cut the red tape in any thorny situation in which you
find yourself on foreign soil. Performing this role as astrologers is one way
we can help those who feel lost in the foreign country of our astrological
language and customs. It’s a matter of being welcoming and hospitable. That
image of ambassadors and hospitality is reason why there is a worldwide hotel
chain called The Embassy Suites.
Some people, in astrological conversations, feel like they’ve lost their passport.
Astrologers are most
likely to seem foreign to newbies (and even olderbies) when we talk primarily in
astrobabble,
especially when we speak it like Erudites from the Planet Brainiac. There’s
nothing wrong with being smart. We can use all the brains we can find, applied
to our convoluted modern challenges. However, we can’t exempt ourselves from
communicating what we know in an effective way that does not alienate others.
Not everyone is a
scholar, and not all important astrological information comes from scholarship.
Much of it comes from life experience and bright people who put two and two
together and help come up with answers “four” us all. There are many routes to
learning; not all of them are academic. Various paths accommodate the diversity
of humankind.
I believe good
astrological communication starts with telling us why we should care about a
certain theory or technical issue in astrology, continues with explaining it in
simple language, and then invites others to share their feedback and reactions
based on their experiences.
Here’s the subtle part.
Style and attitude make a difference in whether something is perceived as
intimidating. When we know a lot, for some of us, there’s a danger that we may
slip into acting patronizing or condescending. It’s important to assume anyone
drawn to astrology is an intelligent colleague on an equal footing.
The challenge lies in how to communicate something you know to others who may not know yet.
Astrology is not exempt
from the rules of good communication. Good communication requires speaking in
terms simple enough that they are easy to understand by everyone in the conversation.
It’s important to know your audience and adjust accordingly. If many are
beginners to astrology, stop to define terms. Invite questions and take even
the most basic ones with enthusiasm and support of the asker.
Sounds simple, doesn’t it?
In reality, it often takes hard work to nugget things down to their essence.
Yet it’s worth the effort for the rewards.
Astrology: Life-Long Learning
We’re taught in school
that we can master a subject. We also hear that the older we get and the more
we learn, the more we know we don’t know. You could never know everything there
is to know about astrology. This discipline we love, half art and half science,
has endless permutations, applications, and new principles being discovered,
not to mention new planetary bodies (centaurs, dwarf planets). Astrology is not
for the feint of heart when it comes to education. To love astrology is to
commit to a life-long learning process in order to understand the continuous,
vast gifts it gives for understanding people, life and living it to the fullest.
In this set-up, we’re all
teachers and learners. There’s no room for I/Thou, if you want to continue to
learn and grow. An attitude of inclusion and curiosity about what the “next
guy” thinks or knows will enlighten everyone in astrological conversations. It
will eradicate astrological intimidation, enhance dialogue, and help us all
learn more. I am often pleasantly surprised by how new people to astrology have
fresh perspectives or insights that often elude the most seasoned stargazers.
Maybe it’s beginner’s mind. In any case, you won’t hear some of these amazing
insights without speaking the language in a way that it is understood across
many levels of current knowledge.
Be an Assertive Learner
I’ve talked about how an
astrologers or astrology students can be intimidating to others. However, in
human dynamics, as my malaproppin’ mama used to say, “It takes two to tangle.” It’s
also important to make a decision not to be intimidated. Don’t remain lost and
let feelings of apprehension creep up and take hold. When you start feeling
your brain fogging and your eyes glazing over in an astrological conversation, don’t
be afraid to ask questions. I’m not
following that. Could you try it another way? If you don’t know a term or
concept, be willing to ask. Can you
remind me what x means? Or remind me
how y works and fits into this. (There are diplomatic ways to ask questions
where the asker doesn’t feel small and the asked doesn’t feel “questioned” in a
negative way.) Let the question mark be your passport. Willingness to admit you
don’t know everything goes for the newest kid on the block to seasoned
astrologers. Back to the beginning of this article, we cannot know everything.
Astrology is meant to be a dialogue, not a monologue.
If you’re too
uncomfortable to do this in the moment at first, stay after the presentation and
talk to the speaker or catch the individual one-on-one in some way. (In an
online forum, follow up with a private e-mail.) Ask for clarification. You'll
be doing him or her a great favor, because the best information on earth will
not be useful until it is well communicated to a diverse audience. We gain
information in astrology according to how many minds join the party for
continued planetary explorations.
Your Report Card – Astrological Ambassador Quiz
How are you doing on
creating an atmosphere that’s a welcome mat in your astrological life? Like
many things I write, this is meant to be a think piece for self-evaluation.
Here’s a short test on being
an astrological ambassador. Grade yourself from A (Excellent) to F (Failed) on
each item. Put numbers to the letters to get your total score at the end: A = 5, B
= 4, C = 3, D = 2, F = 1.
1. __ I interact regularly
with people at various levels of astrological knowledge.
2. __ I welcome the
simplest questions about astrology and respond to them with enthusiasm, even
when it’s difficult to synthesize what I know into something uncomplicated.
3. __ I let people know
with positive feedback when their astrological ideas are unique, well thought,
and helpful. (Encourages the practice.)
4. __ I am willing to
admit openly that I don’t know everything about astrology.
5. __ I don’t refer to
myself as an expert. (Can be very intimidating for dialogue. I prefer “specialist”
in a particular topic or area of astrology.)
6. __ I refrain from
astrobabble as much as possible, unless I know everyone present speaks
astrology at virtually the same level of knowledge as I do.
7. __ I refrain from name-dropping
about well-known astrologers. While giving them due respect for their advanced
skills, I do not act as if they were gods and goddesses. (Imagine how hard that
makes it to approach them. Putting them on a pedestal also rubs off on others.)
8. __ I avoid making
assumptions that everyone at the presentation or in the conversation knows the
topic as well as I do or the background involved. This is especially true if it
involves topics that may be related to astrology, but are not “astrology” per
se, such as history, mythology, mathematics, and astronomy. Most people do not
have expertise on all these subjects.
9. __ When I speak or help
bring in speakers to a group, I avoid using the word lecture in favor of words
like presentation. (Who wants to be lectured to? It has a ring of talking down
to others.)
10. __ I ask questions
when I get lost in an astrological conversation.
11. __ I thank other
astrologers who deliver astrological information in presentations or articles with
exceptional clarity. (This helps encourage the practice.)
12. __ I am willing to
explain astrology to people who don’t know a thing about it, thereby being an
ambassador who encourages new people to visit the Country of the Stars.
____
TOTAL
Scoring
48 – 60: Bravo!
Keep up the good work!
36-48:
Keep these questions handy with a goal toward more 4’s and 5’s in the future.
Under 35:
Take this article to heart and consider how you can become a better ambassador
for astrology.
Let me know your ideas for
making astrological conversations more welcoming, less intimidating, and a positive
think tank for everyone involved.
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