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A Dedication and Naming Ceremony for Your New Births
Spring is the time of new beginnings—or rebirth. When babies
are born, in the Christian tradition, they are baptized or christened. This
confers both the gift and symbolism of the child’s name but also brings him or
her into the community of those who care, implying that you and yours have a
back-up support system. Whether it’s a new pet, a new relationship, or a new
project, you can do the same for your particular new rebirths this spring. I
did this ceremony in 1995 when I brought my kittens Duffy and Darrin into my
family. The ritual can be applied to anything, including a new attitude! Here’s
how to do it.
The Naming
Naming is serious business, for the name of any being or
idea carries the resonance of your intention. Especially when naming human
beings or pets, be sure you know the background or any mythology connected with
the proposed name. Projects and new attitudes work best with an upbeat name
that reflects the positive outcome you seek. For instance, keeping your house
more tidy for better feng shui or energy flow might be called Home Energy Flow
rather than reiterating the bad habit with a title like Clutter Busting. You
could call an effort to see things more from the upside Operation Optimism.
The Dedication Ceremony
Gather at least two friends or family members who represent
your support system. The more the merrier, and this is a perfect ceremony to do
in a group during a Spring Equinox celebration. If you are dedicating a pet,
bring it with you. I suspect most people would dedicate their children at a
separate family gathering, but we have dedicated children in our Solsisters
group in addition to their baptism or other traditions.
Create an altar, and place some objects on it that symbolize
spring, rebirth and new beginnings: wildflowers, Easter eggs, plant bulbs, and
a candle to represent the Aries fire and the new beginnings we celebrate at
this threshold.
The leader lights the candle and declares: “Let our
rebirthday celebration begin!”
Each individual comes forward with a symbol of their new
birth or new beginning. If it’s a child being dedicated, you might use a bonnet
or bootie--for an animal, a collar or favorite toy. For a project, you can
become much more creative. For my new book, I’ll bring a printout of the cover
concept or a bound copy of the manuscript. The individual launching
Operation Optimism could bring a picture of a happy individual—best, one of her
smiling.
As each person comes up to the altar, s/he faces the
gathering, lifts up the actual being s/he is dedicating, if a child or pet.
Bring the symbol, if it’s anything else, or if it’s impractical to bring the
real thing. S/he says:
“Behold, ______ (name of new birth)!” Now say a few words
about your “baby,” whatever it is, and what this new beginning means to you.
Bring the child, pet, or symbol back down from an elevated
position. Share your promises and commitments—to love and support him, her or
it. Ask your circle, “Will you help me grow and support me in this new
beginning?”
The circle responds, “We will!”
Onto the next person.
Darrin & Duffy |
Of course, the words can be altered and the ceremony
stylized to suit your needs. I’ll never forget the teary moment when I held up
the first of my kittens and declared, just like his parents did for Kunta Kinte
in Roots, “Behold, Duffy Kyle!” That
moment symbolized my commitment to a companion who has owned my heart for
sixteen years. The community of my friends has supported me me during every
challenge and loss with the Tabby Brothers, especially when Duffy’s littermate
Darrin (the redhead) died of cancer at age 12. Darrin will always own major
real estate in my heart, where he lives forever. The depth of our bonding no
doubt had something to do with the ceremony and seriousness of my promises to be
there for him always. I still am, even if one of us is no longer in a body.
While Spring Equinox holds the ultimate timing for new beginnings and rebirths, doing this ceremony any time during spring is still very potent. You can also convene a Dedication and Naming Ceremony at any time, for the beginning of anything new is like its own spring.
Blessings on all your new births! And thank the universe for the birth-death-rebirth cycle that is the Circle of Life.
Blessings on all your new births! And thank the universe for the birth-death-rebirth cycle that is the Circle of Life.
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Photo Credit: Vernal
Sun - © yurumi - Fotolia.com ;
Tabby Brothers photo by Joyce
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2 comments:
this is a beautiful and very meaningful ritual. I don't have many rituals that I practice, but I would like to incorprate this one :) happy spring equinox xo
Dear Poetik,
So glad to know you resonate to this ritual! I look forward to sharing it with my Solsisters group on the Equinox and sharing the dose of this happy spring medicine.
A blessed Equinox to you, too!
Joyce
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