Quotes for the Signs #8

 

Our last Quotes for the Signs appeared in February. I hope you enjoy this eighth star-studded Quotefest!

ARIES –  Intuition is a suspension of logic due to impatience. ~ Rita Mae Brown

TAURUS – Plodding wins the race. ~ Aesop (Remember the Tortoise and the Hare)
 

GEMINI:  Sometimes questions are more important than answers. ~ Nancy Willard

CANCER: The times I spend with you had some thorns. But the times I missed you had no roses. ~ K. Gopinathan

LEO: Ego is to the true self what a flashlight is to a spotlight. ~ John Bradshaw

VIRGO - Boredom, after all, is a form of criticism. ~ Wendell Phillips

LIBRA - The one who loves the least, controls the relationship. ~ Robert Anthony

SCORPIO - The creative impulses of man are always at war with the possessive impulses. ~ Van Wyck Brooks

SAGITTARIUS - It is better to travel well than to arrive. ~ Buddha

CAPRICORN - Achievement brings its own anticlimax. ~ Maya Angelou

AQUARIUS - If a man is not faithful to his own individuality, he cannot be loyal to anything. ~ Claude McKay
 

PISCES - A dreamer is one who can only find his way by moonlight, and his punishment is that he sees the dawn before the rest of the world. ~ Oscar Wilde

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Photo Credit: And I Quote © Zitramon Dreamstime.com
 

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Starstuck: Overcoming Performance Anxiety

 

© 2011 by Joyce Mason
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Many people say public speaking is their worst nightmare, something they’d rather die than do—a terror they avoid like the plague. One person told me it's a form of public torture.

Recently, another Radical Virgo suggested write on this topic. Virgos might have a stronger inner critic than some signs. Still, why would someone prefer a root canal without anesthesia over getting up and saying a few words? There must be some other astrological factors involved. Everyone waiting in line to give a talk, shaking in his or her shoes, isn’t a Virgo. Judging from what I’ve seen, people who dread the lectern, stage or front of the classroom come in all shapes, sizes, and signs.

I believe the hints come from Leo. The archetypical Leo is at home on stage and in the spotlight. Leo thrives there—has to have it. Leo is ruled by the Sun. Leo must shine and be the center of his own solar system.

The Sun and the 5^th

I hypothesize that discomfort with public presentations has something to do with the Sun in our charts and/or the 5^th house, Leo’s natural domain. I hope you’ll comment to support or refute this hunch, since I haven’t had time to test it on many charts and would love community feedback. I was also asked by the same reader to address by what I’ve learned about overcoming my fears of public speaking. She pointed out something important.

Life requires us to speak in public at times. It’s a fact of life. Whether it’s a job interview in front of an employment panel, a toast at a family member’s wedding, or a tribute at a funeral—we need to be able to make our ideas, feelings or capabilities known in front of many others in certain circumstances.

To participate in life fully, we’ve got to get over our fear of the microphone and being heard by many people at once.

A Case in Point

Maybe I’m a good person to help test this theory, since I have Virgo Sun in the 5^th house. What an approach-avoidance combo. No performance can be perfect. Virgo has a lot to get over on this issue, but based on my experience (let’s hear from other 5^th house Suns), I cannot avoid being on stage on a bet. I have tried to run and hide. The spotlight follows me, like a tracking beam pulling me toward more speeches or interviews.  At some point, I gave up and surrendered to the inevitability of this fact of my life. I now embrace it, even though my enthusiasm is still a bit tentative at times.

The back-story may help. When I was five, my stage mother coaxed me into auditioning for Ted Mack’s Original Amateur Hour. For my younger readers, that was the original American Idol in the 1950s.

I had no problem with the idea of being seen on TV by millions of people. When we arrived at the audition in downtown Chicago, something very unexpected happened (Uranus square Sun). I discovered a room full of people—other would-be contestants, their parents and music teachers. I was expecting one judge, two tops. I freaked out. I cannot imagine why 100 live bodies were scarier to me than millions of eyeballs staring at me from a TV audience. Five-year-old logic. Go figure. Yet I was traumatized by this event through most of my adult life.

I was partly traumatized by the fact that I gave an after-bawling, half-baked performance—and was not chosen for the show. This felt unfair. They had not seen what I could do. If I had only been prepared for what awaited me and not scared half to death by the surprise. (Note to everyone I know: Never throw me a surprise party.) No wonder I’m always scared something awful might happen every time I step on a stage.

Your Sun’s Gotta Shine

Even if it’s in the homey sign of Cancer or the secretive sign of Scorpio: Your Sun has to shine if you want to be fully alive. Certain astrological factors may make it more difficult, but knowing them may help you move from shy to shiny. For instance, when it’s possible to select the topic of speeches, talk about what you know and love. That makes you come alive with fire, even if your Sun is in water or earth. Cancer can talk about home decorating, cooking, or doing genealogy. Scorpio can talk about home security systems or how to get rid of household pests. That speech might have some hilarious gallows humor woven into the mix. (Do you suppose the darkest of Scorps actually hang those little vermin?)

Play Leo!

Leo, ruled by the Sun, tells us performing has something to do with fire—being stoked.

Make your speeches about money and personal values if your Sun is in the 2^nd. Tell the job interviewers how much your values align with the company’s. If Sun is in the 7^th, talk about being a team player—and know you’ll do great at wedding toasts and eulogies.

If your Sun’s not in a fire sign, you have fire in other parts of your chart or on certain house cusps. Go to one of those other houses or signs and borrow a cup of fire. Find out how that planet or house can help.  If your chart is weak in the fire element, locate an asteroid or other body that’s in the fire element (Aries, Leo, or Sagittarius). Learn about it. Embrace it to amp up your fire. Figure out what Ceres or the centaur Pholus can do to help you jump up onto the stage and be yourself. It doesn’t matter how obscure the astrological body or point may seem to you. If it’s in fire for you, find out what it has to offer! (Here’s a page on Astrodienst with links on how to get free charts with these extra points included.)

Just Be Yourself

What’s really at issue is that you’re being asked to do something Sunful in front of God and everyone—to be yourself. Even more than that, to project yourself! We all have past trauma. So much of it involves rejection or what we perceived as rejection. (The older I get, the more I become aware that my perceptions were not always accurate.)

It is the ultimate act of self-love, trust, and a kind of self-confidence in the making to get up in front of everyone and just be you. But it takes practice, like any other skill.

Putting It All Together: Some Tips

Now that I’ve given you some astrological ideas to toy with (very Leo!), let me weave together a practical Virgo list of things you can do:

1. Join Toastmasters.

2. Join Toastmasters.

3. Did I say join Toastmasters?

Toastmasters International is the best thing that ever happened to me for overcoming my knocking knees on the podium. Since 1924, more than four million people around the world have become more confident speakers and leaders because of their participation in Toastmasters.

Most clubs encourage visitors so you can see how the program works (look before you leap). You’ll see how Toastmasters will take you from baby steps to stellar speaking. I have watched shy individuals morph into confident speakers and leaders before my very eyes. It makes me misty just thinking of the personal growth I have witnessed at Toastmasters—theirs and mine. You’ll learn techniques, get constructive and sensitive feedback—and you’ll have fun and fabulous camaraderie.

Sometimes your company or agency will pay for your semi-annual dues if you speak regularly as part of your job. (Mine did.) You can also create a club at your workplace, if one doesn’t already exist, if you can stir up enough interest. Many bosses consider it a sign of initiative and desire for excellence when you take on Toastmasters. Almost anywhere you go in the world has a TM club, and you can visit other Toasters to feel at home and get tips for navigating the local turf.

I don’t know of any other organization that does this much to develop excellent public speakers. If you do, please share!

Of course, there are other suggestions already implied in this article:

4. Look at your Sun and 5^th house.

5. Ask for help from other planets or asteroids in your chart in fire signs. Imagine how they can help you do that fiery thing.

6. Practice speaking as often as you can, even in front of small audiences.

7. Practice in front of a mirror. Get to know how you’re seen by others and how to present your most relaxed and appealing face.

8. Search yourself to find out what caused your fear of public speaking and address it.

For instance, mine was the unexpected. I always come triple prepared with back-up handouts and my presentation on a thumb drive, in case the computer fails or something glitches. Knowing this fear and doing what I can about it in advance greatly diminishes my nervousness. I know I’m a better ad-libber than I give myself credit for, and in the moment, I’d rather not make a fool of myself. Therefore, I just trust my Inner Talk Show Host and let cosmic and comedic inspiration flow. There’s no time to angst about it. This is the back-up plan that has never let me down.

Some other tips not yet mentioned:

9. Never turn down a chance to be videotaped so you can see how you actually look to others when speaking. I always looked/did better than I thought I did. Even if you’re not happy with what you see, you’ll know what to address. We are our own worst critics, so why not start with the person who can also do something about it?

10. Believe the feedback you get and be willing to make the improvements—or take the applause.

I’m still working on #10. I hear often that I give great presentations. I’m even becoming sought-after as a speaker. Yet when I hear appreciative and complimentary responses, I still think to myself, really?

Tools

Maybe I can’t quite stop being a Virgo, but at least I no longer have a heart attack before a major talk, just minor palpitations while I use some tools to put myself at ease.

Tools I’ve used with great success are:

1. Flower essences.  I start using a Performance Blend at least a few days before speaking. (A week or more in advance is ideal). The essences and what they help overcome or enhance include: Mimulus (worry, shyness, nervousness when speaking), Garlic (protection, stage fright, helps grounding), Golden Yarrow (protected openness, energetic boundaries with audience), Queen Anne’s Lace (concentration, ability to read the crowd with grounded clarity, focus), and Trumpet Vine (assertiveness and clarity in speech). All of these essences are available from Flower Essence Services (FES) and can be taking individually or together in a blend. (If there’s one that stands out for you as potentially helpful, especially if you haven’t taken essences before, starting with that one might be best.)

2. Take Expert Advice on Speaking. It’s extremely important to be careful what you eat and drink before a big talk. One list I like is You Speak What You Eat. Some other good finds along these lines: How to Reduce Stress Before Giving a Speech and Speaking Tips from MIT.

3. Guided Imagery CDs on Self-Confidence. One of my favorites is A Meditation to Help You Improve Self-Confidence and Reach Peak Performance by HealthJourneys’ founder, Belleruth Naperstek.  It comes in cassette, MP3, CD and Playaway versions. You can listen to a sample on the HealthJourneys website. The affirmations were powerful for me and helped me master my last pre-presentation jitters.

HealthJourneys website contains a treasure trove of healing tools. I discovered Belleruth’s work a number of years ago and used her surgery preparation tapes to breeze through several procedures—and impress my doctor about the possibilities of using visualization and affirmations in healing.

These tips and tools might make a Leo out of me yet. Maybe you, too.

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Photo credit: © Performance Anxiety - Willee Cole - Fotolia.com. Play Leo -  © metlion - Fotolia.com

Thanks to Larissa for suggesting the topic of this article.

Quotes for the Chiron Journey

© 2011 by Joyce Mason

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The arc of the healing journey, represented by Chiron in your astrology chart, involves dealing with pain or disowned parts of yourself. From there, as much as possible, you work to overcome the pain or to locate and plug back into your being your disconnected parts. Finally, you give back to others what you’ve learned in the process. The latter often expresses itself as your vocation or calling.

Here are some quotes to inspire you along the way.

Managing Pain

Doubt is a pain too lonely to know that faith is his twin brother.  ~Khalil Gibran

Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain. ~ Joseph Campbell
 

There is a thin line that separates laughter and pain, comedy and tragedy, humor and hurt.  ~ Erma Bombeck
 

Much of your pain is the bitter potion by which the physician within you heals your sick self. ~ Khalil Gibran

There is no coming to consciousness without pain. ~ Carl Jung
 

Overcoming

Acceptance of what has happened is the first step to overcoming the consequences of any misfortune. ~ William James
 

All the world is full of suffering. It is also full of overcoming. ~ Helen Keller
 

The burden which is well borne becomes light. ~ Ovid

The greater the obstacle, the more glory in overcoming it. ~ Molière
 

Sore to SOAR  ~ Margaret Gill, Abundant Private Practices

Giving Back (Vocation)

There is a thing you know how to do that no man has had to teach you. This is your calling, your purpose, your annointing, your destiny. ~ Donna Krech

An unfulfilled vocation drains the color from a man's entire existence. ~ Honoré de Balzac
 

My ultimate vocation in life is to be an irritant. ~ Elvis Costello
 
"You owe it to all of us to get on with what you're good at." ~ W.H. Auden
 
"Before I can tell my life what I want to do with it, I must listen to my life telling me who I am."  ~ Parker J. Palmer, Let Your Life Speak: Listening for the Voice of Vocation

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Photo Credit: © diez-artwork - Fotolia.com with clip art embellishment

Ten Ways to Celebrate Mercury Retrograde

 © 2011 by Joyce Mason

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Mercury in this picture reminds me of a more graceful version of my one-woman Ed Sullivan Show. If you’re old enough to remember Ed’s wildly popular Sunday night TV variety show (1948-71), you might have seen me there. I was the one riding a unicycle while spinning plates on the end of long rods, one in each hand—and balancing a ball on the end of my nose.

Mercury’s my Sun ruler, and lately my act is harder to pull off. The world is spinning much faster underneath me, and I’ve got to pedal faster to keep up. I think part of it is Uranus in Aries. It makes for all sorts of brilliant new creations—that also create a lot of work to bring them to fruition. (There’s a lot of wisdom in that expression easier said than done.) If you, too, feel like you’ve been traveling faster than the speed of sound, as in a sound way to live, Mercury Retrograde can be the ultimate staycation. Mercury asks us to slow down and rethink things. It’s all about re- things: reconsider, reacquaint, and one of my favorites, recreate as in chill.

Here are some ideas about how to go with the flow and celebrate that every gear shift has Reverse for a reason. It’s true of your vehicle—your body—too.

1. Fast at least two hours a day from your most addictive Mercurial device, such as your computer or smart phone. See how long you can stretch your down time by the end of the cycle (Aug. 2-26).

2. Remove from your schedule any short trips that aren’t absolutely necessary. This may include some meetings, certain shopping, and—aw darn!—that guilt trip to visit your least favorite relative. I’m trying to say, in a nice way, quit running around so much.

3. Retreat at least an hour a day into quiet time. Do whatever feeds your soul: read, listen to music, meditate, take a nap—dream.

4. Review your last Solar Return or birthday year. If your birthday was less than six months ago, start with your birthday in 2010. How’s progress? What have been the themes, your accomplishments, your missed goals, surprises, and delights?

5. Revise something important to you that’s tangible. It could be your résumé, a sensitive letter you’re working on, an article or novel you’re writing, your will or trust—or maybe something as mundane as a delivery schedule for goods you get sent to your door on a regular basis. Mercury Retrograde is excellent for these kinds of things. Mercury rules some of the most mundane things we do, and they need periodic reviews and revisions. This is the time.

6. Revise something important to you that’s intangible. Do you need an attitude adjustment anywhere in your life? A face lift as in smiling more? Are you feeling as well as you want, and most of all, getting what you want out of life?

7. Check your books and checkbooks. Nearly every time I’ve found a significant error in my bank balance, it has been during Mercury Retrograde. It’s golden for going back over figures and finding any mistakes or missed entries.

8. Reinvent yourself. How do you want to be seen? You might want to wait to do the makeover until Mercury is direct, but the retrograde cycle is perfect for rethinking how you want to present yourself, particularly in communication forums like your favorite social networking sites. Do you need a new picture and to edit your profile? Reflect on whether you’ve changed and your profile hasn’t.

9. Talk less. We all know people who talk our ears off. Some talk so much, they literally induce headaches. If you’re one of them, give it a rest. If you’re not, stay away from the talkers and talk even less yourself.  Learn the beauty of silence and how a whisper can often convey more than a shout—and a few well-chosen words can speak volumes. Experiment with the subtler side of language.

10. Relax—be, don’t do. We are called human beings, not human doings. Give yourself the blessing of simply feeling who you are and your connection to everything and everyone around you.

By the end of this experiment, I hope you’ll actually look forward to Mercury’s next retrograde cycle. It's our chance, several times a year, to look back at where we've been. We get to idle a little before we have to gear back up into overdrive. It's a brief holiday before the show must go on.

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Photo Credit: Mercury © Oleg Golovnev - Fotolia.com

Merger Reminder: Moonwalk and Moongram

Dear Radical Readers,

Do you miss the Moonwalk posts? Just a reminder that the Moonwalks and my New Moongram monthly e-newsletter are now merged. All it takes to get my New Moongram, with many of the features from the old Moonwalks, is to sign up at the top of the sidebar. My mailing list is used with the integrity of a Radical Virgo. Colorful e-mail news and Moon commentary is sent monthly. There are only rare posts in-between (one so far in a year). Your name is never sold or shared unless you are specifically asked—so far, never. It’s easy to subscribe or unsubscribe.

The monthly New Moongram contains these features:

• Date and time of the New Moon with link to translate to your time zone, if needed
• A link to a previous post where the current Moon sign is discussed in depth
• Behind-the-scenes news at The Radical Virgo
• A recap of the monthly posts on my blog, in case you missed any
• Updates on my projects, such as my Chiron research and book in progress
• Chart of the New Moon with commentary on how these energies are likely to color your life in the month ahead
• Information on the Sabian symbol on this New Moon
• A meditation on this month’s Moon sign
• Coupons! This month it’s 25% off my favorite reading to do, the astro-tarot. It combines the best of booth tools. These are a "See You in September Special," readings booked and advance-paid during this Leo New Moon cycle, but delivered during September when my schedule reopens.

What are you waiting for? The Moon is calling!

Thanks to all of you who already receive the New Moongram. Welcome in advance to those who join. Find out why I chose that lion sleeping under the Moon for this month’s New Moon mascot.

Warm sun and moonbeams to all,

Joyce

PS - The next New Moongram will go out July 27.

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Photo Credit: The lion and the moon in the fantastic desert 

© Sassolinoviola | Dreamstime.com

Do You Trust Astrology--or Your Gut?

Sirius A, the brightest star in our nighttime sky.

© 2011 by Joyce Mason

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A Bigger-Than-the-Sky Post 

When it comes down to a choice of following astrology or my instincts, my answer isn’t always that simple. It isn’t always the same, either.

For instance, I researched a good electional day and timing to launch The Radical Virgo blog. The stars more than delivered. My new venture was successful out the gate, quickly exceeding the traffic on my other blog, where I had labored for over two years for relatively minimal participation. In no time flat, the volume of visits here on The Radical Virgo was five times those on my first blog.

Like a good astrologer and cosmic soldier, I applied electional principles to my first meeting with my childhood sweetheart when we reconnected after 36 years. I lived in Sacramento; he lived in Dallas. Around Christmas 1996, we knew seeing each other in person was the natural next step—but Mercury Retrograde was coming up. (I joked that he’d better get used to the stars and scheduling!) Waiting till January 18, 1997 paid off. There was an impressive kite pattern in our “first remeeting” chart, a Jupiter, Sun and Neptune conjunction—and a Grand Air Trine between Moon, Uranus and Mars. We alternated traveling between our cities four times from January to April. On his final visit in April, he said he wanted to come back to stay. We were married the next year—on another carefully considered electional day, balancing parameters of romance and practicality (two Virgos with Venus in Libra). We wanted to get him on my health benefits before his ran out from his last job.

Two years ago, I had another dilemma, speaking of health. I had to have some rather delicate eye surgery. Like most physicians, my ophthalmologist only does surgeries on certain days of the week—in her case, Thursdays. She wanted to do my surgery on July 23, 2009. From an electional perspective, it didn’t look so hot. In fact, some of my astrologer friends were downright worried—one in particular, an individual who’s opinion I highly respect. Trouble is, I couldn’t find another Thursday in the foreseeable future that would work any better. Many of them were worse. I wasn’t sure what to do.

So, I did what I always do when cogitating gets me “know where”. I got quiet, went within, and got a clear answer: I should go for July 23. The more I sat with it, the more my gut instincts said, keep that date.

I grew increasingly more comfortable with my decision, but I was very guarded about sharing what was going on, especially on the public wall. Among people I trusted to tell, I insisted that no one send me worried energy or have any vision except an excellent outcome. This was challenging with one of my relatives who tends to gasp and go to the worst place in her mind when any health situation arises. “Please don’t do that” in a loving way worked!

Once I surrendered to this cognitive dissonance between my belief in astrology and my instincts, the universe rewarded me with a little help from one of my Twitter friends. A devotee of the channeled teachings of Lazaris, she told me in a series of tweets about his teachings regarding the most powerful day of any year—July 23! Since I talked about the lost civilization of Atlantis in the last post, now it’s Lemuria’s turn:

While Lemurians were present in your world, the Lemurian year revolved around Sirius. The first day of the Lemurian year began on what you now call July 23rd with the Rise of Sirius. That is the day when Sirius rises on your horizon just before the Sun. This brilliant light is immediately swamped, swallowed up by the fires of the Sun, yet an opening has begun. The Rise of Sirius begins a 55-day cycle — July 23 to September 15 — when the Vortex is opened and more fully and widely than at other times. The universe is renewed. It is a time of beginning more profound than spring.

~ Lazaris, Vortex of the Goddess: Birth of the Universe

It calmed my nerves to know that in some system of cosmic thinking my instincts were validated. The surgery was successful; however, in fairness to those who worried about it, there was a complication. With gentle patience and a conservative stance between my doctor and myself to trust it would resolve itself; it did.  All’s well that ends well.

There’s nothing for me that overrides the guidance system built into our bodies. Instinct and intuitions steers us in the right direction when we learn to listen.

Happy July 23 and opening of the Sirius Vortex. The fixed star Sirius is at 14 Cancer 05. Where does it fit into your chart?

I thought you’d like to know about this potent day of new beginnings. I plan to do something special, and I’d love to hear your Comments about other times you’ve thrown astrological caution to the wind. How did it work out?

In my case, going to the dogs (Dog Star) was a good thing … and at least so far (hold that vision!), he’s not a seeing eye dog, either.

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Photo Credit: Spacetelescope.org

More on Sirius the Dog Star

Inharmony Astrology

Fixed Stars in Cancer

Dog Days of Summer: Let’s Get Sirius

Wikipedia

The Great Flow Charters in the Sky

A Bigger-Than-the-Sky Post 
on Karma and Reincarnation

© 2010 - 2011 by Joyce Mason

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Like everything in life, astrology has a bigger context—a perspective that’s even bigger than the sky. This is the second in a series of periodic posts, not specific to astrology, but to the larger issues of why we’re here: the laws of dynamic attraction, soul evolution, the workings of karma and reincarnation, just to name a few. Some of these articles were originally written for my spirited living blog, Hot Flashbacks, Cool Insights. I suspect many Radical readers will resonate to these posts and wanted to share them with you. I think they fit right into the Radical Virgo blog’s habit of making round-trips from Earth to Sky and back—and to the idea that there are even bigger universes to explore—and to which we also belong.

~Joyce

I first became involved in metaphysics in 1977. Little did I know, then, what a red-letter year it was! On November 1 of that year, the planetary body Chiron was discovered. Chiron would ultimately become my specialty as an astrologer, but not until we “met” eleven years later.

Another turning-point iconic event happened that changed the thinking of many people that year—the release of the first Star Wars movie. There’s nothing like cinema to convey cultural values and change them. Suddenly, we were saying, “May the Force be with you,” acknowledging that there was one joining power we could tap into. We were spouting Yoda-isms, words to live by from the tiny green wizened one.

“No! Try not. Do, or do not. There is no try.” ~Yoda, Star Wars

My intro to these subjects, as I’ve mentioned many times before, came from psychic and meditation teacher Betty Bethards and Unity Church. However, my own cultural context influenced the way I saw what would soon become a melting pot of ideas from different religions and traditions. Take karma for example.


While karma has many meanings and spins, they roughly parallel the idea from the Judeo-Christian West, “As ye sow, so shall ye reap.” However, it adds the idea that you may be reaping your crop through continuous lifetimes.



What Are the Mechanics?

I was one of those overly curious kids who asked my father why so often, he wanted to invent a why swatter. When I received new information, sometimes before my physical and emotional maturity to handle it, I would always get hung-up on the mechanics. For instance, when I first heard about sex and how people “do it,” I had to get out two of my dolls, imagining the male to have an anatomically correct appendage, and experiment with how that might work logistically. I didn’t get it. Grown-ups must be acrobats! At least I get points for an inquiring mind.

The same thing happened to me with karma. Once I heard that you often go through many lifetimes with the same cast of characters, repeating similar scenes until you complete your “business,” I had to figure out a way to wrap my brain around something so complex. Here’s what I came up with. Maybe it’s a metaphor; maybe I’m channeling something. At any rate, it works for me as a touchstone for organizing my thoughts around karma and reincarnation.


The Great Flow Charters in the Sky

Remembering that I first imagined this idea in the days before social networking and many tools we take for granted nowadays, I envision that each person has a “team” of advisors, a karma committee if you will, helping him or her to map out his/her next incarnation for maximum learning. This is, essentially, what Betty taught us.

Considering my Catholic background and being raised by an Italian mama, I saw my committee as consisting of handsome young Italian-American men in blue pinstripe suits, sort of a white-collar version of the entourage of Tony Soprano. Only better looking. Only angels. They didn’t make their bones; they made their wings. Bad guys gone good, now rewarded with the important job of helping others even their own scores in their multiple lives.

They’re in a “peace room” of sorts, the heavenly version of a war room where strategies are plotted before the plotted arise and are planted on earth again, body and soul together, one more time. They have to figure out how this complex of people will meet up and have all the experiences they need with all the right people from their past karmic strings of events. What a job!

I envision several flip charts. On them, they are drawing complex flow charts. Each chart stands for an individual life. Imagine the number of charts in a room in order to dovetail all of a person’s primary encounters with the people who are their sources of “unfinished business.” I can barely conceive of the complexity of this. If I had been a come-lately to these ideas, I’d probably imagine some sort of computer program. But I’d lose something important with a more modern image.


Magic Marker Music

 I’m no stranger to karmic connections and karmic moments. When they happen, I can hear in my mind the squeak of the Magic Markers the Flow Charters use, their writing tools dancing furiously on those flip charts. I imagine the complex strategy it took for all the planets to align and the people nudged to get this moment to line up.

Example: Recently, a good friend of my ex-husband, “Pearlie,” was surfing the Net looking for information on the potent summer eclipses and current rock ‘n’ rollin’ in the sky. She came across my name in her Google search and wondered if I was the same Joyce Mason who was “Laramie’s” ex. She e-mailed me, and one thing led to another. We are both into astrology and poetry and had lots to talk about. I hadn’t spoken to Laramie since ’07 and gave her his contact info. Soon we were all e-mailing in a big chain of healing and helpfulness. In my conversations with Pearlie, she helped me revision my relationship with my ex, so wrought with past pain, I dismissed the good I got from him. “Talking” with Larry by e-mail, I could see he was the most healed ever, in a good relationship, and this helped me to let go of the last of any beating up on myself up for marrying him. I saw it was all good, even if it took decades to “get it.” What a gift!


The Mystique of Karma

Speaking of husbands, I recently had cause to discuss with another friend from faraway what a minefield it is to offer opinions on someone else’s marriage, no matter how close the friendship. What Anne said is both commonsense and so profound:

Ultimately, what's between us and our husbands is part of that mysterious alchemy that no other person can ever fully know (including us, some of the time!)


Wow! Dare I say, the same goes for karma—or maybe it goes for karma foremost, because what marriage would not be a karmic relationship? I suspect that people have been incarnating far too long on the earth plane for first-time encounters. That’s my humble opinion, anyway, while clearly understanding that time is a human-made concept.

The resonance of karma is what pulls people together, I believe. We recognize each other energetically. Astrologer Barbara Hand Clow believes that we retain our same Ascendant in our birth chart lifetime after lifetime. One thing the Ascendant or rising sign has to do with is how we look. In other words, she believes we retain looks similar enough from one incarnation to the next to be recognized by our karma mates. Even though that’s a radical idea, if feels right to me.


How Karmic?

Karma is a matter of degree, but I think that it’s simple to tell how hot it is by the intensity of the magnetism when you first meet someone. It could be a “romantic” relationship, a friendship, or any form of bonding. There’s a strong pull-in and a sense of rediscovery. It’s like when you haven’t seen an old friend for years, and you pick right up where you left off. Only you don’t consciously “know” this person yet in this lifetime, so you can’t figure it out by “normal” logic.


Details Please! Past Life Regression

I’ve had several past live regressions (PLR) in my day, a form of self-exploration that I would recommend that you try only with a trusted practitioner by way of a personal referral. I learned amazing things, including my role as an astrologer in Atlantis and how much trouble it got me into, which explains why I’ve been somewhat resistive to reclaiming that vocation in my current lifetime.

I know that my husband, Tim, was also my husband in an Atlantean lifetime. (It was a long civilization, and I think I had more than one time ‘round in that lost world). He took care of me when I was disabled, and now I am returning the favor in helping him navigate his health issues in our current life.

The karma between my birth and adoptive families was explained so well by one of my PLRs, I no longer wonder why it had to happen that my birth mom gave me up. It was inevitable, a role reversal with my adoptive mom in a prior incarnation.

Through love, through friendship, a heart lives more than one life. ~Anais Nin

What If You Don’t Believe in Reincarnation?

You don’t have to believe in reincarnation for this concept to work. In today’s world, life is so fast and jam-packed with experiences, we live numerous lifetimes in any given incarnation. I guess I’m the poster girl for meeting up with people from my past lives and passions within this life … and bringing the relationships to some sort of positive balance or conclusion. I find myself talking about that a lot lately, so it’s obviously something I feel compelled to share as a major cool insight pattern at this time.

Completing circles—that’s what it’s all about. Balancing the favors, love, good and bad feelings and coming to a higher understanding of the essence of each individual on your Great Flow Chart in the Sky.

And, of course, we can see a lot of it coming in the ultimate cosmic flow chart of our astrology charts, especially when we start comparing them.

I don’t know about the sound of one hand clapping, but I do love the sound of one marker squeaking.

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