tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7881668285026141614.post1646953334727733507..comments2023-10-19T23:55:34.695-05:00Comments on The Radical Virgo: Saturn in Libra: "Form" Your Love Life, Chart Your Relationship HistoryJoyce Masonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13462878902674014180noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7881668285026141614.post-33962589246754409932010-04-08T01:31:25.043-05:002010-04-08T01:31:25.043-05:00Emma, thanks for your comment and sharing your con...Emma, thanks for your comment and sharing your concerns. Libra is the sign in which Saturn is exalted or best placed. As a Libra Sun, Saturn in your sign is a golden opportunity to focus on learning as much as possible about relationships—perhaps why you are drawn to partners that ultimately aren’t that interested. Love is always a gamble, and there are no guarantees. Nearly everyone with the right partner got there through the stepping stones of wrong choices and wisdom for the pain. Saturn in Libra is a great time for you to put effort into learning about relationships. Several of my articles on this and my other blog come to mind that might be helpful: <a href="http://radicalvirgo.blogspot.com/2009/11/tools-for-saturn-in-libra.html" rel="nofollow">Tools for Saturn in Libra</a>, <a rel="nofollow">High Signs 2: Living on the Upside of the Zodiac</a> (includes Libra), and <a href="http://hotflashbackscoolinsights.blogspot.com/2010/02/finding-love-in-later-lifespirited.html" rel="nofollow">Finding Love in Later Life—Spirited Edition</a>. While the latter is geared toward people 50 and older--and not knowing your age--the basic information applies regardless of age. I wish you love—especially the reciprocal kind.Joyce Masonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13462878902674014180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7881668285026141614.post-5922669050216521782010-04-08T00:38:24.202-05:002010-04-08T00:38:24.202-05:00I am a Libra and currently experiencing harsh Satu...I am a Libra and currently experiencing harsh Saturn in my sign, my past 6 and only relationships have been ones of unrequited Love (all of the love never being returned by my lover) so I find it hard to ever let myself love again. I promised myself after my 5th relationship that I would never let anyone hurt me like that agin but lo and behold I let myself fall for someone who I thought was perfect and couldnt possibly hurt me if He tried. I find it so increadibly hard to let myself fall for anyone again, yet being a Libran, I would rather Die than be alone without a partner. I just want to know if Saturns transit going through Libra at the moment could help me find someone who is right for me. I couldnt stand one more relationship ending over unrequited Love!Emma43https://www.blogger.com/profile/11958049562496769756noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7881668285026141614.post-42036075438767692302010-03-22T16:43:05.643-05:002010-03-22T16:43:05.643-05:00Hi, Dizzy--Glad you found this exercise useful! I ...Hi, Dizzy--Glad you found this exercise useful! I agree; you're due if not overdue for some relationship action. Sometimes wanting it too much gets in the way. Although it focuses on people over 50, there's still a lot of info in a post on my other blog that you might find a helpful complement to this one: <a href="http://hotflashbackscoolinsights.blogspot.com/2010/02/finding-love-in-later-lifespirited.html" rel="nofollow">Finding Love in Later Life--Spirited Edition</a>. Wishing you love and continued self-understanding. Come back and let me know what happens over the next year.Joyce Masonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13462878902674014180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7881668285026141614.post-14503290626655482222010-03-22T12:48:24.464-05:002010-03-22T12:48:24.464-05:00This was a really useful exercise! Unfortunately ...This was a really useful exercise! Unfortunately I haven't had any actual relationships, closest have been various unrequited crushes and one CHS (consecutive hookup situation) with a married guy living across the country. <br /><br />Age 7 nothing happened, age 8 I had my first crush. Age 14 I had been playing my instrument for a year (I'm now a musician) and had a great year academically and musically (prodigy-like), I also had a huge crush on my music teacher and I feel there was some mutual attraction, though neither of us did anything. A crush that started the end of my 17th year (I had pluto conj venus during this, yikes) came to a head near the end of my 21st year. I had indicated interest several times, he said he was not but there remained the attraction. We hooked up and then he cut off contact with me and all of my friends, and dropped out of school. Said he knew I wouldn't say no and he was lonely. Not a whole lot until age 26, had a crush that ended up with the guy telling me "i am only interested in having sex with you", so of course this went nowhere. Then the aforementioned CFS happened over the course of a year, though haven't heard from him in 4 months. I've tried some online dating services and nothing has happened.<br /><br />I've saturn at 14 libra natally in my 7th house, in a stellium with sun, mercury, jupiter, and pluto, all square moon in cancer, and sextile mc/neptune in sag. So relationship issues are very important to me, it's killing me to not have anything! If the pattern is correct, however, I should have something picking up soon. Seems like the most active time recently was around when saturn entered my 7th house (DC at 9 virgo)Dizzynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7881668285026141614.post-4002859189302744222010-03-20T12:51:29.782-05:002010-03-20T12:51:29.782-05:00I think my pattern is about betrayal.
When I was 7...I think my pattern is about betrayal.<br />When I was 7 my dad started drinking and yelling a lot and continued for years (it's weird - everytime I tell someone about my dad drinking I ALWAYS remember this specific age - 7 - this is the age in my head, although I haven't checked with anyone) - I felt betrayed by him, at 14 I failed my highschool admission (I felt betrayed by myself and others that failed to support me - my sister moved out just then), at 21 it wasn't something major but I remember losing a job in a very ugly way(I felt betrayed by the friend that recommended it) and I had my first huge fight with my sister and at 29 I don't know - I am not there yet.<br /> In the end things turned out pretty ok: dad is sober again and he is like a new dad that I never dreamed of, I ended up in an even better highschool than the one I was aiming for, I finally have a job and got away from the influence of that 'friend' but the feeling of betrayal and abandonment still inhibit me from getting in personal romantic relationships. <br /> I hope Saturn has the answer to that one too!bellagarotahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01158717645892925042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7881668285026141614.post-37052772787919842352010-03-20T10:35:23.503-05:002010-03-20T10:35:23.503-05:00Thanks, Tony! I appreciate your vote of confidence...Thanks, Tony! I appreciate your vote of confidence and positive feedback.<br /><br />Susie, I find recapturing memories works a bit like finding the end of a string. Pull it out a bit (the first memory or two) and the others usually come behind it. I think you'll find this exercise worth your while! Thanks for taking time to comment.Joyce Masonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13462878902674014180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7881668285026141614.post-52409502441679694402010-03-20T07:25:29.338-05:002010-03-20T07:25:29.338-05:00I will give this chart a go. I have never kept a ...I will give this chart a go. I have never kept a journal, so trying to think back is going to be a chore for me. I just don't remember the years of most things. It will be interesting to see what patterns emerge. I am enjoying the blogathon very much. There is so much information. Great learning experience.Susienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7881668285026141614.post-42520429312172987212010-03-20T05:51:29.632-05:002010-03-20T05:51:29.632-05:00Hey Joyce! That's the best article I've se...Hey Joyce! That's the best article I've seen on this topic - some really good advice. Thankyou!Tony Vowleshttp://www.theastrologyblog.comnoreply@blogger.com